Thursday, October 11, 2012

The Mayonnaise Jar and the Two Pints of Beer

When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the two pints of beer.

A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him. When the class began, wordlessly, he picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls.

He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.

The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly, and the pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed again that it was.

The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up the rest of the space. He asked once more if the jar was full, and his students responded with a unanimous “yes.”

The professor then produced two pint glasses of beer from under the table and poured the contents of both into the jar, effectively filling the empty space between the grains of sand. The students laughed.

“Now,” said the professor, as the laughter subsided, “I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the important things - your family, children, health, friends and your favourite passions; things that, if everything else was lost and only they remained, would still make your life full.”

The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and your car. The sand is everything else - the small stuff.

“If you put the sand into the jar first,” he continued, “There is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff, you will never have room for the things that are important to you.”

“Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play with your children, take time to get medical checkups, take your partner out to dinner and play another 18 holes. There will always be time to clean the house and fix the leaky tap. Take care of the golf balls first - the things that really matter. Set your priorities, because the rest is just sand.”

One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the beer represented.

The professor smiled. “I’m glad you asked. It goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem to be, that there’s always room for a couple of beers with a friend.”

- Author Unknown

Story and image found via Shits & Giggles Facebook page


Main Line Sportsman said...

I have always loved this anecdote...and it should resonate with us all!

sweetpea said...

heard before but really loved seeing this story again! Very good reminder/life lesson! Thank you for sharing!

pve design said...

Thanks. I have always loved this one too and we all need reminders and great profs. to teach us to enjoy life and celebrate our friends.

About Last Weekend said...

I'm definitely feeling sunk by all the sand in my life that's for sure. Have just had a terrible day and this is a great anecdote.

About Last Weekend said...

Anecdote and antidote.

Patricia Needham said...

I love this post because this is how I live my life. My kids comes first the house can wait my hubby and I have date night almost every night. I'm a fitness freak so beer is out but a glass of lemon water works.

Thomas Goldberg said...

First read this in 2009 and is as encouraging today as it was 7 years back.